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Oh yes, the soap, deodorant and cologne in the bathroom. You must have bought those cheap ones that smell cheap too and scents that are gone as soon as the hubby stepped out of the house. Or worse you did not buy anything and must have left the soap to do all the deodorizing. A few penny could have made a big difference in his confidence as a cared for man. You could have made your man proud by doing just this and he would have appreciated you more for doing so. They just love being seen neat and clean except for a very few of a male varieties who think being ragged and unshaven is more macho/masculine type and therefore more attractive. Well these guys attract more of their similar female breed.

Men value their silence. Well unless the guy was born in an environment of noise, literally and figuratively. Nagging makes them crazy! And I know that women endemically are. Its alright to nag but in appropriate situations and right timing. Most men would want to keep to themselves their thoughts and sentiments. They appreciate being reminded of what they are supposed to do as the man of the house, but not nagged. You must have overdone the endemic in you that's why the hubby found comfort in the loving arms of another. Many of us are cerebral...we think lot..never mind what the thoughts are. Lately though, an emerging breed of bisexuals have started to occupy the male scene. These are the visceral types, big and strong and confused...not contented with what the female species can offer and prefer to make it out with their own kind. I wonder how they do it. But you guys want to try...ouch!
Men love their women and hate the feeling of being jealous. They cannot stand competition whenever they have secured the affection of a women. We can be worse in the jealousy angle much like the baboon that wants to keep the female pack all for himself. Problem is some women get flattered with the compliments of some men and then one compliment leads to another and before you know it the affection is shifted and the baboon goes ballistic. This is a problem that is equally that of men and women...sexual infidelity. Some men can live with it but most cannot. Worst...kiss the marriage goodbye when the sexual stuff gets into emotional infidelity. This is not just infidelity. This is betrayal. Whether you were guilty of this or not it would have been good had you made all the efforts to reassure your man that he is the only one and nobody else. Neither in your lake nor in your heart. These are but some. I am sure some of the guys here can give some more of the reasons why relationships failed based on your perspective. Hope you will just treat this as a matter of course and not entirely of fact.

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