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Why do relationships fail

I was trying to write a piece about the "coffee" that we feel but I got stuck with how well does it relate to the love that we feel. So I decided to write on something else much closer to our experience and the things that we did when all was still well with the person we were with. I am hoping that I would be able to capture all the intricacies of it, from a man's perspective and see how the economics of love got in the way of a prospectively wonderfully happy lovely ending. Lets make this a laughing matter, okay?:


A woman's scent is very much important to a man. It is a fact that the male species is most attracted to one who smells naturally good. Well the use of perfume, provided it's not the ones that you get from just a cheap store, provides for a more appealing sensation in situations of gradually diminishing natural scent. Have you ever wondered why the sex on the earlier part of the relationship is most intense and steamy becoming less and less boiling after a few years and several kids after? It's the scent my dear...well primarily. That's the reason why in many cases the hubby fell for a younger variety...they smell better...naturally. The least that you could have done in this respect was to mimic your natural scent through the use of delicately alluring perfumes. It is said and I believe it, that "the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach". The daily fare that you prepared may have been very limited as it is limited by the budget that was provided given the limited resources the hubby gets from his employment. That's quite understandable. But have you thought of developing a variety of cuisine that would make the limited resources less obvious or was it the same fried, stew, baked, day in and day out? There are some cheap cookbooks that you can find in the culinary stores that may have added some ideas to your cooking prowess. I call this "higher cognitive cooking" as opposed to the natural "instinctive cooking". Would be mistresses have developed this art of "higher cognitive cooking" as a way of making sure they capture their men. You should have thought about this earlier. You must have set this matter aside as unimportant. Now look what happened. Men love to look good and smell good. They are as vane as we are. We like to parade around in our spaghetti strap blouse and well-pressed jeans no matter what is our preferred colors. Did you make sure of this whether you were than one doing the washing and pressing or it's the house help?


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