I don't think that it could be easy to say that my boyfriend still have feelings for his ex without asking him. Communication is a big factor in a relationship. Sometimes, if you will just predict that this is really happening without even asking him the truth, it will only lead to depression and worst case scenario, will ends the relationship.

There are cases that my guy will always mention his ex's characters, likes etc. I might think that he's still in love with her or he missed her. But what if, I am already doing something wrong and that he just cannot tell it to me directly, so what he does is just using his ex's name to make me realize that I am doing something wrong.

Not all ended relationships, ends to nothing at all. Sometimes, couples end up as very good friends. I do know these for these happened to me many times. Aside from your parents, next person who will understand and know you better is the one you had long relationships with. If my boyfriend would be talking to his ex a lot, I might think that he's trying to reconcile with her. But when I talk to him, what if he's just having problems with our relationship and just seeking some advice from his ex.

The word break up for me can be compared to a one way street for me. No u-turn, no coming back. When it's over, it's really over. I can talk, be with him, or even be a good friend of him, but the ended will relationship with this trust, love and all will never happen again.

You should not kill yourself thinking that your boyfriend might have feelings with his ex still just because of his actions. Sometimes, love is so blind that they can only see what they want to see. You need full communication. Better communication will lead to a better relationship.

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