Moving on and getting over with someone is like you are getting drown to the sea alone. It's either that the water will get you and makes you drown or you will be courageous enough to continue on swimming and save yourself. They always say that life is a matter of choice. And that you are the writer of your own story. Moving on and getting over with someone are also a matter of choice. If you really want to forget, you can forget. So the time that you're going to count on how long you can get over with with this someone will always depends on you. If you would set your mind that you really need to get over with him and that you will start all over again on your own, then that would really happen. This needs a lot of hard work and determination , though. Many people fails, specially if they can still see this someone they want to get over with and still have communication with them.

First of all, you need to decide when you will start getting over with this someone. When will be this right time and what will be the right steps that you need to take. Once you're decided, you need to stick to your decision. You need to be determined enough and you should have this strong interest to really forget. No communications, no contacts and all with this someone. Don't ever think of even just peeping on his blog or not even a 1'1 picture of him. Put away all of the things that can remind you of him. Try to focus yourself to something else. And avoid thinking abou him. The time will depends on how sincere and how decided you are to get over with him.

Love yourself. Focus your attention on how you will improve yourself. Because it's you and no one can ever help you better but yourself.

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