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I am thinking about the gap between our growing number of very young parents, and later in life parents.

I am just shy of twenty one - surprise! I have two children. Other than our ages, we are the picture perfect little family. My husband has a good job, we own our home, have great kids, the works!

The age aspect never bothered me until I started thinking about play dates. One neighbor, who acted very friendly and offered often to let the kids play together took it all back when she learned how young I was.

People assume that because we are young parents, we are irresponsible parents. People assume our children are not well cared for, educated, or wanted. All of which is of course not true. We are dedicated parents to happy, healthy children.

No one though, seems to be interested in working with or grouping up with young parents. The reality is though that the number of young parents is growing. While every example may not be good, there are equally as many that are.

How do we bridge the gap? Consistency. When you see parents at the park, be friendly, talk to them. Be open about your age, and be open about the joy and success of parenting. Relate to people and they will come to see in time that age has nothing to do with it, it's all about the maturity of the individual.

People eventually got over the shock of my age, and came to see I wanted just what they wanted for my children, happiness, health, education, and love. Once all the stereotypes were peeled away, it was a new opportunity for everyone.

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