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Tips for revitalizing a boring sex life

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"Ladies, I took 'The Chad' to a whole new level. You don't know power till you have screwed your husband", Shirley said as she walked into the break room for lunch. All six of us were glued to Shirley as she related her and her husbands trip to the adult book store where they purchased a strap on dildo.

Sitting there reading this you might wonder how a group of female nurses, nurse's aides, and one gay male social worker ever came to be prepared for that declaration. We were the lunch room sisters and nothing was off limits, including my sex life.

My inquiring "ladies who lunch" wanted to know about anal sex and why gay men found it so pleasurable. Of course I was quick to enlighten them that anal sex is pleasurable to all men, including their husbands due to the prostate being a nerve filled pleasure center. These girls were amazed that a man could actually orgasm solely from prostate stimulation.

So we developed "the Chad". Now "the chad", is no election controversy, but it is a way to introduce straight men to the pleasures of anal stimulation. We coined the name from the movie "Charlie's Angels". We deduced or invented that the reason the character, Chad, stalked Drew Barrymore, was her sexual prowess with prostate stimulation.

To introduce your husband or boyfriend to "The Chad" you start by filling a large tub with water and bubbles surrounded by candle light. Remember you are going to be playing with the an area of the body that is best played with clean. What better way to begin than knowing you have personally washed away all the unpleasantness.

Now, I am fond of rimming, where you begin seducing your partner with oral stimulation and allow your tongue to slip down to the area under your man testicles. Before you know it you are stimulating the well scrubbed and tasteless anus with your tongue. The sensitivity here is amazingly pleasurable. Of course your straight man must be reassured that you are simply being kinky and want to show him extreme pleasure. Don't over justify, just tell him to relax and enjoy while you return to his penis and begin oral copulation.

Reach for you non-water soluble lubrication as he is consumed with the pleasure you are giving him. Begin massaging his rectum as you continue to service him. If he tries to squirm or wiggle uncomfortably simply sit up and place the free hand directly and firmly on his chest and push him back. Tell him reassuringly but firmly, "I am going to rock your world. Relax". Then


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