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A black woman is beautiful from her head to her feet. She has a certain air about herself, that can't be duplicated. For a long time, I was puzzled as to why black men go out and fall in love with white women, who try their best to act and talk like sisters. I have been told by so many brothers, that they go out with white women, because they take care of them. When I say take care of, I mean in a financial capacity. I think, it is a very sad day, because our black men have sold us as black women, out, and took their piece of the American dream and gave it to a white woman, who already got hers, although she took hers, and bought her a strong black buck. Something she has fantasized about, all her life. Since she is not satisfied, with her white man anymore, and deep down inside we as black women don't want them either. For some reason we are the strongest if you really made a comparison between black women and white women, the only thing they have over us is that, they never had to fight to prove to the world that they are somebody, because of the color of their skin.

The only thing they had to fight for, was sexual equality. White women, have always been put on a pedestal, and been told that they are God's gift to men. That no one could touch her especially not a black man. I have been around some white women, who felt they were better than me, because they are white. Which is ridiculous, because a black woman has plenty of reasons, to be proud of herself. We have been the back bone, to our family structure for a long time. I know personally, I have raised four sons on my own, with no help from their fathers. I let their fathers have there time in the sun, I never asked for anything. Today I have four strong black men, to look at and admire. My own sons have told me, that white girls do things that black women won't, and they buy them things too, so I asked them if they were trying to build a relationship with the young ladies, or were they turning a trick.

I asked them these questions because, I didn't raise them to live off of a woman, not even a white one. I taught them to work for anything they wanted in life. I also told them, that they should not be taking things from these young women, if they were not planning on being with them in a committed relationship. I taught my son's that to use someone without there knowledge is wrong. I also posed this question to them, "How would you like it if some man white or black treated me that way"? Then my son came

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