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from Sex forever! But we are worried about the repercussions of irresponsible sex. Being sexually active and sexually responsible are two different things, and it is vital that our children are taught the importance of both. Most schools do impart some basic information on safe practices etc., but I believe that it is crucial for the children to be able to clarify their doubts at home. After all, each culture, religion and family has it's own values regarding Sex, which generalized sex education at school cannot address. Sex education in schools can talk about Health and Safety, but concepts of Love, Respect and Responsibility for actions are values that we get from out homes. And the latter are as closely linked as the former to the issue of Sex.

So, it is important to be able to talk about these topics openly. And it is better to start early. But then the question comes, "How early?" What is the right age to start these discussions?" This may vary from child to child and parent to parent. However, in my experience, I started brief discussions about these issues with both my children when they were around six years old. And continued to do so, (as and when an opportunity came along or a question popped up from them) for the next four years or so.

Thereafter, whenever in any kind of quandary, my children would directly approach me. Some times, it was awkward. At other times, I needed to think carefully to word my answers appropriately. But it is well worth it, for I now know that my children can talk to me about their personal issues and fears, as freely as they can about a Math problem or an English quotation.

And that, I will not trade for anything in this world!

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