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"Venue" being the operative word - MySpace is only one of many where teens can meet others from their area or far away. MySpace isn't the instigator for harm. The site provides an opportunity for connecting to friends, family, user groups and also an expressive outlet. What makes MySpace or any venue on the internet unsafe, is the way it's used.

It isn't news-breaking headlines that there are predators on the internet. Predators aren't just on the internet, but in the real world and possibly your neighborhood. It is easier for predators to con teens on the internet, but steps can be taken to guard your children's safety. We have to use diligent guidance with any venue and parents have the responsibility to be involved enough to know what their children are doing.

I suggest for parents to create their own MySpace profile so that they can see clearly how it works and all the available features. MySpace offers privacy options so that a profile cannot be viewed, except by those you know and trust. Discuss with your teen, how they should set their profile up, for the utmost safety. One problem I sometimes see is teens using display names or have photos that are of a very suggestive nature. If your teen is expressing themselves in an objectionable manner, have them change their profile or unplug the computer. Rules need to be laid out and followed. If you have to resort to unplugging the computer, I'd suggest a long discussion about why they felt the need to express themselves in an inappropriate manner in the first place.

Teens can be vulnerable and especially if a charming stranger tells them everything they want to hear. Their vulnerability and naivety may cause them to easily give out personal information. You need to discuss clearly about not ever giving out identifiable information to those your child doesn't know. Explain the possible dire consequences.

You can opt to make known, the town, state or country you live in. Choosing the state instead of a specific town, can offer more safety. You don't have to display a real name. I've seen profiles with real and full names, towns and specific places they like to hang out. That isn't wise on the user's part.

My son-in-law is a youth pastor and has a MySpace account to keep in touch with his youth group. I have an account and have never had problems. In fact, I've connected with some friends I lost touch with and also keep in touch with locals. I know several people, both teens and adults who have MySpace accounts, and don't encounter problems - but they take steps in preventing those problems.

There are some objectionable profiles and groups allowed on MySpace. There are some inappropriate users. Ignore those that try to cause trouble and don't be afraid to report anyone that harasses you. Overall, MySpace offers a lot of good opportunities and for free. In my opinion and experience, MySpace is as safe as you make it.

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