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Do you ever wish that cupid never sent his piercing arrow your way? You date, get married and things are all new and lovely. You build a future together and finally just when you thought you never had it so good, the jealously plague bites you on the behind. Asking yourself is there some insecurity you may be having when you are plagued by jealously over the wonderful husband you have married? No ladies, its your hysterical jealousy running wild with temptation to overreact. It starts in your mind one day as you accuse your husband about checking out some cute young thing in the mall. Your thoughts get more detailed later in the week while you are at the local grocery store, by accusing him of looking at some woman standing in the grocery checkup line. A funnier scenario is when your husband goes to the bank on Friday's to deposit his paycheck and you tell him that the only reason he goes to his bank is to flirt with the cute teller behind the counter. By then your jealously is getting pretty ridiculous when you turn a simple event into an "oh my god instant love affair!" When you come back into reality and you feel totally dumbfounded about what you said and done its too late. Your husband may have glanced at the teller from afar but not enough to create a scenario like instant love affair. Its ridiculous what life's jealous moments bring.

Keep your head up and look for ways to end the jealousy. Because you will get but get no good relationship results when you keep on accusing your husband. Does this all sound familiar? If it does, promise yourself that you will not mention it or confront your husband with those type of accusations again. If you decide to accuse him,more power to you. You will never forget what happened because you have just bought yourself a first class ticket to relationship toast! Did you know that only YOU are working towards destroying your relationship. Handy available spur of the moment options that may work under pressure when you find yourself in those jealous situations is as follows: A. Just focus your attention on something else. B. Intelligently you just don't bring it up NOT ONE TIME. Things will get better you can be sure. Leave your imagination behind and take up video games or something that requires your brain to concentrate on simply just something else.

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