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You will never really move on, but you do have to move forward. A part of you will always stay in the past with them, but after some time the pain will ease and you will be able to go on with your life the best way you know how to without them. There will be times you will miss them so much it will physically hurt, but you have to learn to remember the good times. When you think of them, laugh don't cry. You have to think that they would not want you to feel bad, or sad. They would want you to remember what you loved about them. After my Papa died I was so mad. I just wanted him back so badly. I would cry so hard I would throw up. I missed him. He was there my whole life and I did not know how to live without him there. My Nonnie and I took his death very badly, but we had each other and that made it much better. It helps to have people you love and who understand around. Talk about the person who passed don,t act like they were never there . It won't help. You don't have to keep them alive, but do remember them.

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