Cougars

It is as if there is a tidal wave of interest in cougars. I am not talking about the feline species, well; maybe I am, as women are known to be "catty." No, I am talking about older women dating younger men. They are so prevalent that there is actually a term for them. It was as if Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher broke the metaphorical glass ceiling and opened the gates for those to follow. Then there was Justin Timberlake and the gorgeous Cameron Diaz. She was 35, he was 27. Demi and Ashton wound up getting married, with all 4 kids in tow, and Justin is now bringing sexy back without Cameron. So sometimes, as in any relationship, it works out and sometimes it doesn't. But what the hell, they had a long enough run to make everyone stand up and take notice.

We just seem to be so much more open about just about everything nowadays. I am so lovin' living in these days, where for the most part, everything is acceptable. I am not naive, I said most. The rest of it you can read on the blogsand find all of those like minded individuals ready to explore whatever you and I like to do. I have always thought older men dating women young enough to be their daughters was, well, gross. Where did my open mind go? I think I have lost it, because if you flip the script, viola! You have me, and some 24 year old stud, which by the way just turned 24. Yes I guess I am a cougar. I am cougar here me roar! How old am I? Thirty-six.

I can't for the life of me understand why every woman isn't a cougar. I mean, my philosophy is "Get em young, while they are still trainable" And they seem to be more appreciative well, with just about everything. I like that in my man. Take my sexuality for example. Oy, labels. But for clarification purposes, I would say I am bisexual. Actually it would be more accurate to say trisexual, cuz I don't think there is anything out there that I haven't tried.

I think it is fabulous when I am with a younger man, which is always the case, and ease them into this upside down topsy-turvy world of I am older than you so I know what is really going on. So just listen and oh yeah DO what I say. Enjoying the freedom of sex without all the baggage of being younger and insecure is a refreshing change of pace. I no longer ask such questions that are ridden in self doubt. Will he like me if I don't have sex with him? Will he like me if I do have sex with him? Do I look fat in this? If I could just lose this 10 or 20

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