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Love does not require public affirmation for it to be valid.

And like many things in life, marriage is a choice, and one more and more people, especially those without religious affiliations, are choosing not to embark on. After all, marriage is not a fast ticket to happily ever after. It doesn't assure a smooth and happy ride.

Ultimately, a relationship is between two people, and getting married is not going to ensure that the relationship lasts it is the commitment two people have towards each other that will make or break the couple.

Choosing not to marry doesn't mean that you're choosing to be alone either. There are many ways you can affirm your relationship without taking vows and receiving a piece of paper. Cooking a surprise romantic dinner, doing a chore for your partner that you know they hate, organizing a weekend getaway all of these things prove that you're thinking of your partner, and that you're committed to them, and the relationship.

There are many other reasons why marriage may not be for you you haven't met the right person, you've previously had a failed marriage, you don't have the time or the money.

For whatever reason, it doesn't matter if you've decided that marriage isn't for you. It is a decision made between a couple whether to marry or not, and as long as you're both happy and content with the decision you've come to, then there is no reason to explain yourselves to anyone.

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