Asking the question Why can't I be rich?' evokes negative emotions. Combine those negative emotions with all the baggage that we accumulate over the years and it's no wonder we can't get rich. So how do we get ourselves to take action to achieve our goals when it's the last thing we feel like doing after a long stressful week in the office?

Motivation
What motivates you? If you're satisfied and comfortable with your lifestyle you will be less motivated to change it. Dissatisfaction is a great motivator. How do you really feel about your situation and what are you prepared to do to change it? Once you've made a decision take action immediately. The longer you wait to take that first step the less motivated you will become.

Goals
Set realistic goals. You only have to watch TV shows like American Idol to know that the saying, If you can dream it, you can achieve it' is not always true. How many would-be singers have left the auditions totally devastated because they were told they can't sing and how many of us, as viewers at home, have agreed with the judges? Knowing your strengths and weaknesses will help you to focus your energy in the right direction.

Balance
Having balance in your life is essential if you want to maintain a positive emotional state and physical fitness. Don't dedicate every spare moment of your time to achieving your goals; make sure you schedule time with your family and friends. There is no point in making millions if you have no one to share it with. Schedule some you' time to go to the gym, read a book, pursue a hobby, whatever helps you relax. It's often during these times that you get your best ideas.

Support
It's important to have the support of your family and friends. If you feel guilty about not spending enough time with them it will eat away at you and you'll find it harder to maintain a positive frame of mind. Take some time to explain what you want to achieve and why. Your successes will make it all worthwhile in the end and the benefits will far outweigh the sacrifices.

Finally, be happy, healthy and successful. If you achieve all three you will be truly rich!

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