7 of 9

Write now Article Tools

Page 2 of 2

and understanding of the game than parents do, and if you think you can do better, take a class, get certified and put on a whistle.

A good soccer parent also supports the team. This doesn't mean just your child, but the entire team, and as surprising as this may be, the kids on the opposing team. Every child needs to be cheered for, supported, wished good luck, praised for a good play, good effort, and encouraged to give it a better shot next time. Recognize good plays by all the kids, and take pleasure in knowing that you've put a smile on their face.

Lastly, support your child. Don't focus on the mistakes and the negatives, but encourage them with praise for their effort, their success, and if they fall down, applaud them on how quickly they bounced back up. Don't hollar at them from the sidelines and criticize their mistakes, chances are they're already aware of that and disappointed in themselves as it is. Your child will respect you for your praise during the game, and then they'll be more open to discussing improvements at a later time.

Support is essential for soccer, or any sport, especially when children are involved. Without the support of good parents, good players, coaches, and referrees, we wouldn't have successful soccer programs in neighborhoods around the country. Whatever would we do with our weekends without them?

Learn more about this author, KJBuchanan.
Click here to send this author comments or questions.

• << previous page
• 1
• 2

Add your voice

Know something about How to be a great soccer parent?
We want to hear your view. Write now!