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The full French kiss is a amazing sensual act of intimacy and first time daters should be wary of coming on too strong, this can be most off-putting to a prospective lover.

Before you even consider French kissing you should be sure that it will be well received. Other things to consider are: Have you been eating Tuna, Garlic, Anchovies or any other strong tasting foods? Are you clean? That means did you clean your teeth before the date? do you have a gum disease? are your lips free from cold sores? IF you can't answer yes truthfully to all of these then you would be better to confine your activities to a peck on the cheek, or even a hand shake, this might give you a chance of a second chance.

So what if you meet the love of your life and fall deeply and passionately in love out of the blue? That could happen at any time and probably when you are least expecting it so if you want to become intimate with anyone it is important to maintain a high level of personal hygiene at all times.

If you shower regularly you should never smell bad, body odour does not come from sweat, it comes from the bacteria that develop and feed on sweat after a few hours.

So, if you meet the girl or boy of your dreams on a hot day when you are out running in the park award yourself a gold star for being ready.

So you and your partner are getting close, your heads turn to meet, you skilfully avoid crashing noses by a slight turn of the head and your lips meet.

You open your mouth like Jaws and shove your tongue as far into his or her mouth as it will go.
NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!

Start with a light brushing of lips, only increasing the pressure and intensity as your partner responds. when you feel his or her lips part that is the sign that it is time to go further, - So this is when I ram my tongue down her throat?

NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!NO! NO! NO!

Let the tips of your tongues meet and brush lightly together, keep calm, don't breath too heavily and don't snort! This is supposed to be erotic and sensuous. the really deep kissing will come when it will, if you feel your partner pulling away don't grab hold, relax, she is probably only coming up for air. Chances are he or she is new to it as well. Gently nibbling the lips can be quite effective but don't leave marks.

Above all it is supposed to be enjoyable. Don't be tempted to get drunk beforehand, you won't enjoy it as much and there is always the chance that you may vomit into someone's mouth. Can I just say that I don't recommend this.

Keep it light, keep it clean, keep it fresh and keep it sensual.

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