by Dwight Hines

Created on: August 07, 2007

From the shadows I return to tangle with your thoughts. Why it seems good men are gone? Many reasons stalk this question. With times becoming tough and money is hard to come by and the influence of community, music and Tv. Good men have a lot on they're plate. Also alot of why good men gone bad has alot to do with women. Let me explain the logic on this. The phrase shivery is dead is the truth or very close to it. See when guys do try to be nice, women say they are patronizing them or only doing it because they want some of her goodies if you catch my drift. Also some women let what the last boyfriend did effect whats going on with you. So it's like a man is walking on egg shells to be the perfect guy and that is pressure on him. Next are bad women who are rude and tear down the ego of good men. A good man could be doing the right thing,but these women will call him whipped or a punk. Plus the bad women is to busy destroying themselves while good men are trying to build. Look at the bad guys and dogs out there. Women do their song and dance on how they want a good man, the good friend or man shows up and they are to afraid to be loved or the lame accuse that he deserves better. What do you expect from men when they see the bad boys with all the women and fun and all the man here's is good guys are boring. This will lead them on the path to the dark side of bad men. Also the nice guy knows if he has the fancy car and material things the women will come flocking. Also young women don't know a compliment if it hit them in the face, but the jerk who is loud and rude and tears them down is angel to them.

Older men are to blame as well,because of their false macho attitudes towards women. This includes abusive and controlling men who are insecure with themselves and take it out on the women. It's sad because some young boys never had the chance. {Sins of the Patriarchs} These men believe women are beneath them and weak which is not true and these men need help. Oh yeah the result from the bad boy you thought you could change. Yes I'm throwing it in your face. Also good men are made to feel desperate when they do bring flowers and cards, but later women want you to bring them that stuff. Drives you crazy and it's confusing. The last thing is you have boys raising boys, and they watch their fake thug father treat they're mother and copy these actions. They're is good men out there and we struggle like any other man, but we have a heart and conscious and we are a better future. Positive men don't have to be soft,it's time to start knocking you fake men off. From the shadows I return.

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