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The metrosexual man versus the cowboy: What do women want?

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by George

Due to Humans having this thing called, a Personality, there is not just one answer to this age old question. The real question should be, "Does the woman want to be Gorgeous and Clean Cut? Or does he want to be Rustic and Rough-Around-The-Edges? Or better yet, does she want to be dainty and feminine or butch and muscular? It is only at this point that the answer can truly be given.

A woman's decision as to what she "really wants in a man" will come naturally after she first figures out what she herself wants to be like, or shall I say "Who she truly is". Wanting to be someone and actually being that person is two different things. I am saying the goal here is to find who you truly are. Not who you "want" to be. Women, and men alike, do not like "fake" people. So. My words of advice, "Be who you truly are."

In addition, at the same time, the man must first answer his own set of questions in order for him to appeal to the woman after she figures out herself. Such as, "Does he want to be Gorgeous and Clean Cut? Or does he want to be Rustic and Rough-Around-The-Edges?

Regardless, a woman and man first need to figure out who they truly are before either of the two sexes can choose what they want in another partner. You have to know who you are before you can find a complimenting partner. Make sense now?

In addition, a side note that general public does not understand is that "Metrosexual" does not mean the man is gay or in any way less "masculine". For example, most Football or Sports playing men are usually "Metrosexual". Along with any man who body sculpts or wears cologne or want to match his clothing properly. Or better yet, want to wear clothing that fits his body proportionally, not too tight (Wranglers) or not too loose (Fubu). Or they want those clothes that do fit, to be clothing from his decade. The way they present themselves to the world is a must and this is not a bad thing at all.

Men who swim Pro shave their entire body for a better result. These men shave their legs and underarms, but this does not make them gay.

My point is that Metrosexual just means that the man cares about his looks. This is good, because otherwise, there would be no men out there to compliment the ladies of the world, like me. A.K.A., I want a Metrosexual man because I have figure out that if I were a man, I would be Metrosexual.

As I have already stated, figure YOURSELF out and then your answer as to what you want in a partner will then be easily answered.

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