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How to forgive the unforgivable

Forgiveness for me isn't that hard sometimes I'm one of those Mr. Nice Guys that forgive and forget but take it from me even nice guys fail at forgiving sometimes especially since your trying to forgive your parents and your siblings for making your lives hell.

I am a son of one messed up family. We always fight, sometimes my father and i take it to the extremes. Mainly he's the one person i find hard to forgive since i found the real truths about him come my teenage years. So many things he did to screw up my life first is not start a college fund that's when i was born till i was a kid till 10. Then he tried to evict me out 3 times. One time he actually stood by the door and made sure i left the house.This worried my mother a lot when we were going through the starting of the transformation of my father into one son of a beech. But one thing that shocked me the most was the fact that my mom caught my dad having an affair in Troy Michigan. My Mother tried to forget it and it crushed her for days and when my dad returned home he treated her like poop. When my mom tried to get back at him by locking him out he broke it and threaten to hurt her, that basetarde. Then when she almost divorced him he apologized and that's one mistake she made, then hell started for me as well.

So a few years later in our new home, everything was well our so i thought we started a lot of things bad happened again like these, arguing a bit more and then he always would get mad at me for the stupidest things, like one time he got pissed that i helped my sister up because she fell and almost lashed out. Then one time we were eating a normal family dinner and i was in a bad mood that day i didn't speak and he just destroyed the whole furniture and belittled me till i broke down. Another time i woke up and i stammered because i was nervous and didn't understand what he was talking about almost hit me with a glass vase. Almost doesn't come close in most cases but his it did because if i didn't stop him i would have taken those hits. Then when we tried to move again my father said no and my mom tried convincing him to do so because we loved the new house and it's finally ours to own then something set him off to go after my mother and i blocked his hits and we all held him back so he didn't go crazy. But he gave in because we were going to move without him.

We should have moved without him he doesn't make things any easier he still gives my mother hell. Man every time we have parties they're


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