The swinging lifestyle is one with a much different set of rules then a normal relationship. It requires trust honesty and openness between all parties involved, in someways it requires more trust then in a two person relationship.

Simply put the swinging lifestyle is one where couples (married or not) and or singles sleep with who they please. This may involve multiple partner sexual relations such as threesomes, foursomes, orgies and such. It can also mean partner swapping (exchanging partners between two couples) soft or hard meaning same or separate rooms. Often times both partners play separately or one watches the other play, both partners don't always participate. For this too work there has to be no jealousy in couples you are agreeing to add more people to your "bed". There are people who believe this keeps marriages fresh and helps prevent divorce. It is purely a choice to live an open relationship and usually share details with your partner.

For singles it can mean freely meeting individuals or couples for adult fun with no strings commonly abbreviated to nsa (no strings attached).

There are swingers sites online such as adult friend finder, and clubs in real life like Mon Chalet in Colorado.

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