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What is swinging? Well that was a question I had asked myself over and over again. I have been in a serious relationship with the same man for almost five years and we are not yet married. We do have a child together though and then we between the two of us we have four children his mine and ours. Anyway back to the subject at had. One day my man and I had decided to try and check out a website that was free and it was for swingers which I do not know how many out there know what that is but what it is when two people as a couple decide to take on other couples or singles sexually not that my sex life isn't any good because really it is wonderful but people can do this if they just want a little more excitement in their lives which was why we had joined. We have met some really cool people. The thing that a lot of people mess up on is not setting rules first before anything occurs and that we had done we only get involved with other couples and we have to be in the same room as things are progressing that was the only rules we had. Well the one couple we have stuck with we really enjoy their company very much but now it has almost became a little bit of a drama thing in our lives. I talk to the female part of the other couple on line all the time but I am a stay at home mom as well so when I get all of my housework finished I jump on line well me and fiancee always text one another at least five times a day but when he had text messaged me the other day I did not answer right away because I was on my phone and you can not receive text messages while talking on your handset so I did not even get them right away so now he thought by this time that I was ignoring him which again I was not. He sent me five messages and one of them read what are you doing on the computer so now you are cheating and ignoring me oh here we go I knew this would happen eventually but I thought it would have come up sooner. The thing is we have no trust for each other and I guess we thought this might help a little bit and the biggest reason that I had even agreed to it in the first place was because he had recently cheated on me and so I thought maybe this will bring us closer and help with the trust issues as well plus maybe he would be more interested in what was going on at home and not so much at work where he had cheated on me. Well the story I guess is that I am not sure and I guess maybe anyone who could help by giving their opinion on what I should do keep going on this or do you think it will continue to cause more problems for us? Are we doomed? Is my love life over? HELP

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