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Have you ever felt as though there are two types of guys out there? The ones that are good with women and the ones that are not so good? Have you felt that you are the latter? If so, you will be comforted to know that most men are too. Probably the biggest question out there is "What do women want?". Well, I have spent the last four years trying to figure this out. I've studied all about what it is that natural "players" have that average guys don't. Let me tell you, I am starting to figure it out! I am so excited about this that I want to share it. I want to share with you what I am learning. The secrets of seduction and attraction. So watch for my articles.

First tip. It doesn't matter what you look like. Confidence is the key. Studies show that what women find most attractive is confidence. So guess what, you'd better get it. How? Well, first thing. You need to get out there start talking women.

Many men have a natural fear of talking to beautiful women. Or women in general. It is a fear of rejection. The only way you are going to get over that fear is to just do it. You need to realize that it is not going to hurt you. You need to do this if you are ever going have control of your sex life. I know you hear it all the time, but seriously, what's the worst that can happen?

Practice makes perfect. To begin with, practice just going up to women and asking a simple question. "Hey, do you know where the nearest coffee shop is?", then thank her and leave. Once you're comfortable with talking to strange girls, try it with just the really hot ones. Until you're extremely comfortable with that.

Then, practice continuing the conversation. Make a simple comment on something about her. Her clothes, hair, something she's holding. But do NOT give her any compliments though. If you just have to give her a compliment, make it a back-handed compliment. Like, "I like your shoes, they look comfortable," or "You have a really cute smile...even that thing in your teeth." Then end the conversation and leave. When you're comfortable with doing that, move on to only the really hot girls.

Eventually you will become so at ease with women, that you can actually have fun and really get to know them! They will be able to sense that you are really laid back, fun guy, and they will eventually actually approach you!

Try it.

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