by Corvette Girl

Created on: July 22, 2007

I feel that a husband's behavior has a huge impact on how a woman feels, interprets and reacts to him because as we all know women are feeling and emotional creatures and men are physical and visual creatures. We are totally opposite of one another on the feeling and reacting scale.

I agree with the woman in place 1 that there are those wives that no matter what their husbands say or do they are totally faithful to their husband, no if ands or buts, however, it does not mean that we don't consider it or think about it. Women are also dreamers and even if we are with a mate that does not satisfy our needs entirely or in one way or another we still stay totally faithful to that mate no matter what. Whatever the circumstance we will not find solice elsewhere but our situtation cannot stop us from day dreaming of a cheating affair. As much as some of us would like to cheat with that man that we dream about we don't because we are faithful to the vows we took with our husband.

In my previous marriage of a long time ago my husband was an alcoholic during our entire marriage of nine years until I divorced him. When a man is an alcoholic he is in another world and that world definitely does not include a wife and or kids. It only includes him and anyone that would like to join him in his self wallowing of what ever has caused his alcoholism. My ex husband would start drinking every afternoon until he passed out around 4-5am every morning and then sleep all day until the next afternoon when he would start the cycle all over again. He couldn't hold a job and would lie to his employers of why he wasn't coming in therefore we never had any money and I was left to be the sole provider of our family. When I had our baby girl together he did not change and instead got so wasted the night before her birth that I almost was unable to wake him to take me to the hospital when my water broke and she was ready to be born. Our life together was one sad event after another. In the beginning on the day of our marriage and we had our wedding reception he took all the liquor that was leftover from the reception and took the next 3 weeks off from everything to drink it all. Didn't go to work, didn't get out of bed, he did absolutely nothing but go on a drinking binge.

But to my point of this article. Even though this was my horrible marriage that I had gotten myself into, the vows that I took were so strongly engrained in me that I never cheated on him. Sure, I could have, but I never did.

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