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Why does love ... fade?

I don't think that love ever fades or ends but rather it changes. Years ago I believed there was only one kind of love because I was raised in children homes which had no love to offer. So I automatically believed the only type of love in this world was the love of self.
As I grew older I soon learned there were different type of loves but not a love that lovers say they have when in love. Now even older than then I know for a fact there is even a love that is real, not the kind that changes after the infatuation has dispersed but a true love; A love that is considered as being in love and I believe as well it can happen with the sight of eyes gazing into each other. This type of love never fades but the others fade because people makes changes in their lives constantly. Love can fade because one has grown tired of the old life and is trying to find a new life, while the other is still content in their old ways. Love can fade from not being with each other enough as with being with each other too much. There are many different reasons as to why love fades but I would guess from my own experiences the main reason why love fades would be for the simple reason we are human and always searching for the greener pasture.


Even though we search for greener pastures, if we have a true love or are in love, the greener pastures will be sought for together and this love will never fade. How do we know for a fact that true love never fades? Our Messiah has a true love for us and is a love that will never end, but our human love when not in true love will fade like the rose you had given your sweetheart when you first met them. If it is a true love you will know, for it is just something in you you will feel. So don't be discouraged if you have a love that faded or your mates love faded, they are process' we go through until we find our true love.

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