There are many things that men wish women knew about them.
I'll try to give you 10, with some insight on each. Not all of these will apply to all men, but just men in general.

Advice to Women
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1. We need to be held sometimes - Just for the sake of being held.
We don't ALWAYS have sex on the mind, most of the time, yes, but not ALL the time.

2. We have sex on the mind.
Yes, I know, there are other things in life, this is just our favorite.

3. We enjoy going out with friends.
We don't have to go all the time, but we DO hanging out with the guys now and then.

4. Sports aren't foolish.
Look at us, if we could play the sport, we would.
But....that would involve us getting off the couch.
Sit down and enjoy it with us. It's more fun that way.

5. We don't like cleaning up the house.
Yeh , it also involves us getting off the couch.
In all honesty though, tell us to do it anyways. We will cause we love you.

6. Don't ask us it you look good or fat in an item of clothing.
We don't enjoy lying to you, and if we tell you the truth, we're screwed.
And honestly, what the hell we know about fashion anyways...look how WE'RE dressed!

7. We like cars.
It isn't called "the red one" - it's a "1968 Shelby Mustang with red metallic paint", and "the pretty orange one" - that's a "1968 Dodge Charger"
This is like us saying your new shoes are "the same as the ones you had before." (Isn't true, is it? )

8. Tools are necessary.
You can't change a tire with mascara. You NEED wrenches and stuff.
It's NOT a waste of money to buy these things.
If you think it is, next time your tire goes flat, bring out your makeup and help us change it.

9. Not all of us are the same.
Just because some jerk didn't phone you back, or anything else that may have happened.. We aren't all the same.
Don't condemn all of us because you dated a few losers.
Us good guys ARE out there. Keep looking.

10. We make mistakes.
Give us a chance to fix it, and make it up to you.
We most likely will learn from it, and we hope not to do it again.

I hope this has given you some reflection on a man's point of view.
Remember, #9 - this is only one man's point of view. And not all of these even apply to me in general.
I just though I'd try to give you some general insight.

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