by Jodie Chadwick

Created on: July 01, 2007   Last Updated: January 08, 2008

I hate reading articles where someone has cheated and they say they are to blame and so was their partner! Your partner may be ungrateful at times and they may not give you the attention you want or think you deserve! If you are capable of cheating then you do not deserve any love or attention!

I am a mother to a three year old and 12 week old twins. Me and my partner have found it hard but its a case of just getting up and getting on with it. Its only now, 12 weeks after the twins were born, that we have finally got our relationship back on track. We weren't giving each other the attention we used to, we weren't talking to each other the way we used to, if anything we were horrible towards each other but Not at any point did i feel like i wanted to go out and sleep with someone else and neither did he. If we had wanted to do something like that then we would have ended the relationship first! There is no point in cheating on someone and there is no point trying to excuse yourself for doing it. Who are you trying to convince? You did it because you have no thought or consideration for anyone but yourself. If someone is reading this and has cheated then shame on you. People have been known to kill themselves because of cheating partners, whereas if they had not have cheated and had just ended the relationship because it wasn't working anymore then those people would still be alive today.

I will never understand why the partner who has been cheated on gives the cheater a second chance. They will be constantly looking over their shoulder wondering if they are cheating again. The trust is gone in the relationship and they end up having no faith in the other person. How can you still proclaim to love someone who has hurt you so much you don't know which way is up or down. These people who cheat should have it done to them because they deserve nothing more then what they have given to their partners.

Cheaters are no better than murderers, they kill a part of the other person which is impossible to get back. They ruin any chance of a good relationship for that person in the future because they will always be looking for signs that they are cheating scum like their last partner.

I hate people who cheat. What i hate more is the people who cheat and then try to excuse themselves by blaming it on their partner not giving them any attention! How pathetic those people are!

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