I've been involved in the greatest sport on the planet (yes of course I'm talking about basketball) since 1976 when I was dragged off the stage in my junior high gym and told I was playing ball.
"I can teach anyone to play" coach said but "I can't teach him to be 6'1", get your sneakers!"
Now I'm way too out of shape to play anymore but it seems like I'm coaching or organizing all the time. Here are some of the things I've learned in nearly three decades of sports.
(I am still learning) They apply to any of the sports.

If you want to coach, then volunteer to coach your child's team. It can be a great experience. Chances are the organization your kid is playing in wold love to have more volunteers. Many will pay your costs to attend clinics and certification exams etc.If you are not the coach, then please DON'T coach from the sidelines.There are few things worse than seeing a kid on a playing field trying to listen to a parent yelling instructions while the coach is trying to give direction to his players. If you are not the coach, then please DON'T coach from the sidelines.

Whoops! There is one thing worse: Criticizing the coach to other parents on the sidelines. Get a life! I know some Dad's who are so- so technically BUT the first thing you will hear me say to criticism of a coach is "they are giving up their time for their kids, you have to respect that!"

If you aren't the coach; cheer, encourage, stay positive. Remember it is supposed to be fun, and on the way home it should be still fun.
After the game only talk about the good plays, the good effort, the fun! The coach will take care of the other stuff!

Remember that most people running the league your child is a part of are just Mom's and Dad's going the extra mile for their kid. You should Honor that.

Finally (for now) lay off the referees. I've had my disagreements with officials but as with most things a diplomatic and discreet exchange between the coach and the official will be of most benefit to the contest at hand.

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