Tips For respectable relationships between siblings, well its hard to just do tips, i mean it is a lifestyle that can be a wonderful experience or it can be a rivalry forever.

I personally have a wonderful relationship with my elder Brother and younger Sister. I do not believe it was just a conscious decision one day to just love them. I believe it started before i was even born, the way my parents handled telling big brother that i was about to come into the world. They talked about me so much he was just excited about me coming as they were.

A huge thing that happened was after i was born they did not neglect my big brother in more ways they neglected me more. They made sure he helped with everything so he felt that he was just important as i was. After all the years its is still the same We have never had to worry about who was better because our parents loved us each equally, and they did not hide our faults but they always told us what we were great at.

With all this love to each of us we never had to argue for our parents attention. Which i believe is the reason for most sibling rivalry. I mean there have been times when i just wanted to kill one of them but after a few days we talked out our differences and said sorry. So if you want a couple of tips i will give you a couple

Never love One of your children more than the other

Make sure they play together and let them be children

Make each one feel important

Love all of them

If you are a sibling trying to rekindle a sibling relatonship

Realize that they are person problems and all and you do not have to fix there problems but they do need you to be there for them

Do not dish out there secrets, if they can not trust you they will not be your friend

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