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Communication. This is so very important not just in your personal,home,bedroom life but in all aspects of your life. If you do not voice what,how you feel how are the people that mean something to you supposed to know, they can't read your mind. Be vocal, no need to be nasty or vulgar to get your point across. If you do not express yourself then you will go through life thinking and saying well he/she didn't do that for me like i wanted.

Be willing to try new things, they might be out of your comfort level but unless you try you will never know if you would have liked it or not. Don't be ashamed of saying Hun how do you feel about this, or maybe this. Yes it might be a little uncomfortable at first but really if you have a good relationship to start off with one that is filled with communication , love and respect it might not be as bad as you think it will be.
It doesn't have to be off the wall kind of kinky stuff, anything new and exciting will spice up your special time together. Make time together, yes we all have busy, hectic life's but if you do not make time for your partner/mate then they might end up feeling like you are not as interested in them as they are you. Put a love note in their bag before they leave for work, or give them a quick call at work just to say you love them. Or tell them that you will be waiting for them after work in the tub. Sure your partner will get the hint on that and make them want to get home even faster that night. It will make them feel special and at the same time it will also make you feel good. You know that old saying do onto other's as you would have done onto you.

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