When i first started to see the real face of the world was about 10 years ago... It is odd to realize that life is changing as we are getting older, everything changes inside out..I am from a medium sized city from Romania with a wonderful location as the city itself is surrounded by mounties...is really amazing and actually the only thing that have not changed within all this time...However, after completing my high-school degree my parents decided that is better for my inner self experience to move for the University and go to the Capital...so... i did so even deep inside me i felt like i do not belong there at all...and that was finally proved to me...My biggest disappointment was to realize that the people with same nationality as me are so much different....Life in any Capital seems to be like this but for me was really shocking...People are rude, are against term of patience, and apart from all these there is no respect for woman anymore...Woman... so sensitive...so glamor....and so much forgotten...However, the good part of a Capital is that you really feel free...life goes on...everybody is less interested what the others are doing with their lives but they care more for their own prestige, for their own look...They are so much hungry for money and is so much hard do not become one of them...Once you try it you really enjoy it but in the same time you are forgetting about your roots...

which is bad because is the only sensitive path left from your real life...the life you experienced from the time you were born...

And life goes on...After experiencing my life in a bigger- colored city i had the most wonderful experience of my life by being sent by my parents up to England for a smaller city in order to attend my master course...This was the most wonderful experience of my life...Thank You for this...As i started my course over there i started to enjoy the real life of a student that i never enjoyed before during my University...is sad i know but is for real and i wish to have enough time one day to expose all the goods and bads about my both experiences...

I can say for the first time in my life i was leaving my dream along with the people i always wanted to be surrounded with...i was for the first time in love with the way i leave and the way i see my future...I made friends for life and this happened for the first time in my life...before i used to think that something is wrong but actually i realized that i was perfectly fine and they were wrong from many other ways of thinking...

But this is the way we choose to leave our lives...I come to an end by admixing that actually our lives..our destiny is build by nobody else but our aspirations from life...You have to feel strong inside, you must love yourself and keep searching into your life for what makes you fulfilled, confident and happy..This is it...as simple as that....or maybe to this given receipt add some more or even plenty of JOY...exactly JOY...find JOY in anything you do or see or even hear...

None of us knows everything but always be flexible and open to new things that occur around you...There always is something new for you and me...Lets make a better way of thinking...

Life goes on but we choose how life shell be for us...

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