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own invitations at home, and they will come out looking very professional. Embossing, high-gloss, velum inserts, ribbons, etc. are always an extra charge per quantity, which makes no sense, since the only people who will likely keep your invitation forever is you and your parents! Print your own maps, directions, RSVPs and place cards yourself and have your wedding party assemble and address them. Pre-printed envelopes are very costly, and it's easy to find young volunteers for the job!

6. The Reception
It's easy to lose sight of the horizon when it comes to your reception, so chose a location that suits your personality. State parks, banquet halls, hotels, local VFW halls, churches, even your own back yard are good choices. Pay your deposits with a credit card, but pay for the rental itself in cash. You will thank yourself later. Make sure there is room to accommodate your guests comfortably and keep in mind things like dancing, open bar, etc. A cash bar is always the best way to go, but ordering a few cases of champagne could do the job just beautifully, without disappointing your more "spirited" guests. Pre-purchasing libations can also save you from embarrassing drunken moments, like when Uncle Milton decides to toast your hot bridesmaid by lifting his glass and asking her to drop her top!

You could have an all out reception complete with a five-piece orchestra ensemble or a DJ with an extensive collection of music that makes grandma and grandpa go into cardiac arrest, but why not hire a local musician? Visit several local establishments until you find one who fits your taste. Even a local high-schooler could surprise you with their piano or string talents - dig deep! If you insist on hiring formal musicians, have them play your reception for the first hour, then put a family member in charge of your sound equipment. Burn your own full cd's of reception music and have them played continuously, making sure someone keeps them loaded! Free entertainment! You can even use your own cd's for your wedding march and ceremony music.

Watch the menu! Costs add up fast when you bring in a caterer. Clearly, the smaller the reception, the lower the cost unless you choose to use your smaller numbers to spend more per person. No one is required to serve a three course meal. Spend your money on a beautifully crafted cake, and keep the reception food at finger foods and things that don't require a lot of condiments. If you're lucky, you know someone who loves to cook and maybe

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