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Oh, you mean besides the lipstick smeared collar, shirt buttons in the wrong hole, and his fly still undone?

Hmmmmmm. Let me see. I'm a guy and I'm picking on the guys. Mostly because in the 12 years of my screwed up marriage I never cheated once. Even in the weeks that I knew we were separating.

BUT SHE DID!

Anyway, I think some sure signs that hubby is being satisfied elsewhere are a total lack of interest in having sex with you.

Or else it is sort of robotic with no passion in sight.

He is spending so much time at WORK, (ha ha) that his overtime check would most likely pay off the mortgage in full.

He is tired "all" the time. The poor guy.

There are HUGE moments of silence when you are together, as if he is afraid to say the wrong thing. And he probably is. And you're probably afraid to accuse him even if you do have your suspicions.

More money also seems to disappearing out of the bank account than usual. That could be for those expensive hotel rooms. You never know!

Ever fiber in you to believe it's true, but deep down, you know it is.

If you are really, really certain, I would hire someone to follow him or I would follow him myself.

This is not something you want to drag on for years.

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