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did something very bad. Even though you love him, you must let go, so you file for divorce. Your child is more important. You can get counseling for yourself, your husband, and your child and stay in your situation, but that will not be easy to do to save your child. And even if you do divorce, you and your child will still need counseling, so it is best to move on. Love is always around the corner. It doesn't just happen once and anyway a man or woman who molests his own child doesn't know the first thing about love. He needs total and complete reeducation. So let him go. You are hurting anyway. The letting go won't make the hurt worse. In the end you will be better for it.

So what else is there? What else do we do to let go? We prepare ourselves. We think about it. We plan it. We read books about it. Maybe talk to a counselor or minister or other professional knowledgeable about what we are up against. Then we make the move.

Once the loved person is on his own, we begin to rebuild our lives in case they may have been shattered badly by domestic violence, abuse, divorce, etc. If it is a matter of just getting the children out on their own we development new things to do. We indulge ourselves. Remember we are people too. And we count. We need to care for and love ourselves as much as we care for and love our loved ones.

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