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There's so much to be said about becoming a new dad, but what the mom goes through to get us there is almost unexplainable in some cases. We sometimes lose sight of the day to day changes that our wives encounter not just physically, but mentally as well. Stop for a gleeting moment and think how you would feel with something growing inside of you. Our discomfort could be caused by ingesting food to rapidly while hers is caused by the simplest shifting of the child. We can take an antacid and go play golf while she has to constantly maneuver herself into a different position just to obtain temporary comfort. This brings me to the point Dad's

We all need to share more than just the attention of wives being with child. We need to take ten minutes and try to imagine what we would feel like and what it would take to help ease the uneasiness.
Draw that warm bubble bath for her, but instead of running to the local pub, stay and actually converse with her, ask her what and how she is feeling and then take action. Remember, You didn't mind spending the time to help create this situation, now it's up to you to become a Dad before the child arrives.
Share everything with her, learn patience now, it will help immensely later on. If you wait to learn, it will cost you double.
1) Just because you worked all day doesn't mean you punch out for life. Remember being a Dad is 24-7 so get adjusted to the fact that your wife needs you more now than ever.
2) Be an active listener and show true interest in what is being said.
3) If you don't know how to cook LEARN, or become a fast food junkie (not recommended)
4) Be the hero that she married, remember all the back rubs she gave you ? Well now it's time to turn the tables. And don't forget the legs, they are supporting two people now.
5) Compliments mean double now, remember she is going through a lot of changes.
6) Don't smother her too much, she needs her private time just like you.
7) Enjoy the pregnancy by becoming part of it to the fullest extent, be proud of your wife. (think about it)
8) There are no more "My" chores or "Your" chores.
9) Try to show her everyday that you appreciate everything she does for the both of you.
10) The best advice I can offer is very simple but I'm going to scream it out so it'll stay in your mind at all times. Ready?
TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE YOU TREAT YOURSELF AND EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT!
All of this is just common sense but sometimes we may forget a thing or two.

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