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unnecessary information to one party. Usually, the intention is good but only as grounds for divorce. Sometimes, the external force could be a mistress or a boyfriend with whom adultery is committed. Under such circumstances, even the Bible says that divorce is justifiable.

However, adultery could be avoided if there is no boredom in the marriage. Sometimes, spouses get so tired of each other that they begin to grow apart. Sex gradually becomes a chore instead of an agent of pleasure. Topics for discussions become scant and conversation reduces to irritable questions and monosyllabic answers. Married couples must always find creative ways to keep the fire burning in their marriage. It pays to take a vacation so lovemaking could happen in a novel environment. Eating out and an occasional trip to the movie theater or a play add some spice to the marriage.

Nonetheless, when all is said and done, a couple that has fallen out of love for each other cannot stay together. Sometimes, it's not because they hate each other but because their love has transformed into a friendship that is no longer romantic. They probably may have come to see each other more as brother and sister than man and wife and sex is no longer viable between them. Under such circumstances, divorce is inevitable.

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