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Happiness is home made. By that I mean, only you are most responsible for your own happiness. No one else can create your happiness.

If you are unhappy in your life, stop, look around and ask yourself why? Are you bored wih your job? In a relationship you would like to get out of? Did your life not turn out like you thought it would? Now ask yourself what you can do to change the way you live.

Get a makeover, that is, go get a new hairstyle and make up. A new look can energize you and give you the confidence you need to change your life. Rearrange the furniture in your home and burn scented candles to change your mood. Write a current job resume. Then mail it!

If you are in a relationship you aren't happy with, make a change. If you are married with children, try a marriage counselor. Getting a new outlook on your relationship may be all you need to jump start it with new life. An unbiased person can often see things more clearly and help you to understand the changes you need to make. If you are dating someone, talk to that person about taking a break. Even just a short vacation alone can help you put the relationship in perspective. Everyone can use some time alone, time to think things through and sort out your feelings.

No one else can make you happy. You have to find happiness from within. You have to be comfortable in your relationships, your job, and even be happy with your home. Sure other people can bring you happiness. But that only lasts a short time. True happiness, that you wake up with, comes from with in you. You have to like yourself to be a happy person. Then you'll find, the happier you are, the more people with enjoy being around you.

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