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Alright, I believe that I have solved the mystery of why women have a difficult time being aggressive in bed. Yes, it is unbelievable, but true. And the answer is really simple. The problems ladies and gentlemen, is the English Language.

Let us explore the language of aggression. "I will hit you!" is aggressive. "Hit me!" is well, hmmm... let's not go there.

Bringing this to bed, what do we have? WARNING: language from here on out might offend the less worldly wise and enlightened among us.] Well, to be aggressive in bed, a guy goes like "Oh, baby! I am going to give it to you!"

Okay, not everyone speaks that way, but you get the idea. What would a woman say to be aggressive? "Give it to me!"? See above equivalent, get the point?

I say, the problem is not that women are not aggressive in bed. They just cannot find the right words to convey it! Think about it for the moment. Almost all the verbs, are action words that are from the man towards a woman. It's like a lawyer going into court but limited to only honesty and truth! (it's a joke... chuckle.)

So, there you have it. The real reason women have a difficult time being aggressive in bed is simply because through the years, society has crafted language in such a way that makes it impossible.

The solution to all this? Well, I only said I knew why, not how to solve it!

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