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I have a few very special close gay friends who actually met on the Internet, some years ago and are still together now. There are various websites to choose from. My two closest friends met on my space, which is for people of any sexuality, they met on there 4 years ago and are still together now.

When you have actually found someone on the Internet who you are attracted to follow the following tips and you shouldn't go wrong:-

1, Firstly make sure you get to know them quite well before you give any phone numbers etc out, you never know what kind of person you are actually talking to.

2, Tell them all about yourself, such as work, hobbies etc, what kind of music you are into, to make sure you have something in common, and ask them the same.

3, Ask them what they want out of life, like hopes and dreams, security, places
they want to go.

4, Ask them if they have ever been tested for HIV, i know it sounds cruel and
insensitive, but you only want to be able to trust them, you don't want to put yourself at risk.

5, Once you think you know them enough, and feel ready to meet up with them, make your arrangements, but make sure you tell close friends and family,
where you are going, and with whom, if need be take an escort, as soon as you feel comfortable enough when you have met up, your escort can leave.

6, When you do meet up, make sure it is in the daytime, in a place where there are quite a few people around, you don't want to meet in a secluded place, just in-case something terrible happen, just be safe.

7, If you have to travel to another country to meet them, make sure everyone you know, knows exactly where you are going, when you should have arrived, and contact numbers and a address, when you get to where you are going, and have
met up, phone home and let family and friends know that you have arrived safely, so they are not sat at home worrying about you.

8, When you have finally met up, try and be relaxed and comfortable, be confident but not over confident they may not like it.

9, If you have met up somewhere local, don't take them back to your place the first time, get to know them a lot better first, get used to enjoying each others
company without rushing into anything, if its meant to be it will be.

10, And finally, be happy, take your time, you have all the time in the world, who knows you may have met your soul-mate. Good luck.

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