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Have you ever been called "lying and conniving" with a very nasty name? Well... I have had or rather still dealing with my inlaws. Despite the fact that I have been nothing but nice to them, I do not understand their reasoning behind their hatred towards me.

Back to the beginning... I married my wonderful husband in October of 2004. We had only been dating for 7 months when we got married to each other. I know what you are thinking you didn't have time to get to know one another, but we did. We have basically known each other all of our lives, but never really knew it. Anyways... we were happy...me, him, and his two kids. I love my family.

Everything was fine for a couple of years. He was awarded sole custodu of his children. We moved into a new house and were remodeling it. Everything seem to be wonderful and on track, so in June of 2005 I found out I was pregnant. The whole family was happy, except for his mother. She hated the idea of us having a child so early in our lives. Well here is the sad part, I miscarried at 3 weeks and it was devasting to me and my husband. I became very depressed, but received help for it. His family could not stand it.
In September of 2006, my husband and I seperated for a week. I went back to my parents house. He stayed in our home with the kids. I would have been fine that week if he had never asked to make sure that I was there when the kids got off the bus. It was very hard to leave everynight. I mean that is my home, and just could not understand why I was having to leave it. Anyways...during this week I found out alot of things about my inlaws. This is the start of their hatred towards me.
I found out that they had never liked me in the first place when my husband and I got married. It came out that I had forced him to marry me. I mean come on he was the one that brought up in our realtionship the whole marriage topic. Well I kept my mouth shut and just listened to what all had to be said about me, and I sank back into my deep depressioin again. This time, I had my husband's help to get me out of it. At the end of the week, I moved back home and everything has been fine or so we thought...
We went to go visit his sister that lives in Florida, and everything blew back up. She should here true colors to me. She got in my face yelling at me telling me how horrible a person that I was and mother that I was to my children. Now mind you, my husband was standing right beside me taking all of this in with me, because she

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