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Rewards are a terrific way to motivate children! If a child feels like they are getting something for their hard work, they are usually more likely to do what needs to be done. They may feel like they have something to work towards. Giving a child a reward gives them something to look forward to.

Children who are rewarded for tasks completed often work harder to achieve their goals. They have better self-confidence and are more willing to do things. This is a great idea to get children used to chores, rules, and dealing with authority. There is a certain pride that comes from earning something. Don't take that away from your child.

Decide what the rewards will be. Don't go overboard. Simple things work great. Let your child help you decide what the reward will be also. My son and I made a pact. We decided that if he improved on his report card he would get some Floam. The report card came out, he did well, and the next day, he was floaming everything insight.

Make chore charts. For each completed chore, give them a sticker, a stamp, or a check mark. (This is a small reward that will build up to a bigger reward.) When the chore chart is full, reward them with something for their efforts. At my house it takes a week to fill a chore chart. Each full chore chart pays two dollars. Of course, the reward doesn't have to be money that is just what works for me.

If you make a promise to your child, keep it. Don't attempt to bribe your child to get something done and then not follow through with it. Trickery is never a good thing. If your child upholds their end of the bargain, you should also do the same. Teach your child to complete all tasks they begin. Remember that you are the parent. You should be the one to lead by example.

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