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The 10 men a woman should never marry

The Aisle of Agony



Your stomach jumps when you see him, the stars in your eyes have you dizzy and distracted and wedding bells are ringing in your ears. But are you sure you have a prince on your hands? If you are involved with any of these 10 men, you might want to think twice before you march down the aisle of agony:

1. The Fanatic Family Man: Don't get me wrong, I definitely think that both you and your husband should have healthy, loving relationships with your family members, but when the family relationship significantly overshadows the marriage relationship to the point where his respect for his family members has you feeling dismissed and neglected, it might be time to move on.


2. The Family Forgetter: If your hubby makes no mention of his parents, be raids his brothers and sickens his sisters by forgetting their birthdays, anniversaries and other important events, then this is a sure sign of how he is to treat you. And you might definitely want to think twice about marrying a master neglecter.
3. The Ex-Wife or Ex-Girlfriend Enthusiast: Does your hubby still seem way too attached to a dame from the distant past? Does his dive out the door frequently and inexplicably to make an unchaperoned visit to his "friends" and return with the pungent smell of perfume in his aura and lipstick on his lapel. If so, there might be much more going on than you realize and you might want to consider whether this pattern will continue when you commit.
4. The Ex-Wife or Ex-Girlfriend Basher: Does hubby constantly criticize his now contemptible Connie for the way she did laundry? Does he waste value energy and time spitefully downgrading his former darlings? If Mr. Handsome Prince hasn't figured out how to release them or respect them, then you might be up for the same fate when you fight. Beware.
5. The Liar: We all tell little lies. I think it's just an innate character flaw instilled in most humans as a measure of humility between God and us. But if Mr. Wonderful misrepresents large portions of his past or makes up stories to cover his frequent indiscretions or relates better to make believe than reality when it's time to deal with daily life, then you might want to take a step back from that leap into love.
6. The Alcoholic or Drug Addict: Does fianc fancy beer more than bedtime? Do you come home from a hard day at work to find him drowning in dakeris? Does his mourn your suggestion that his mixed drinks should be removed? Misplaced without pot? Avoid, avoid, avoid. Moderate


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