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locating a new doctor, dentist, plumber, electrician, yoga class or gym, library, hospital, supermarket, and any other such amenity considered essential to the family in question. Adults also tend to be responsible for organizing such arrangements for other members of the family.

Teenagers need to be assisted in finding new schools or colleges, unless home schooled. They will also need to locate new sources for friends, clubs, groups, sporting activities, etc if moving out of the district. A farewell party held for a few close friends can be a memorable event, where telephone numbers and emails can be exchanged in order to keep in touch. Some may wish to search for part-time work, and this can often be done by a visit to the new area prior to moving, or online. If the move has to occur at a time of year that falls just before exams or mid-way through the season of a sports team, it can become especially disruptive or stressful, and consideration should be given to this matter if a choice of when to move is possible.

Younger children can be talked into seeing the move as a positive adventure. They will still have moments when they become sad at thoughts of leaving or losing where they have been safe and happy, so taking a few photographs to remember favorite spots can be helpful. A favorite swing at the play park or a special tree near the shops may mean a lot more to them than you thought, so it is best to ask them to suggest memories that they would like to take pictures of. Leaving out the favored teddy bear or toy train until the last minute is also a good idea. It can help keep them cheerful as they walk out from their old home, never to return. If this is their first time moving home, it can be frightening for some, and usually the adults are too flustered and stressed to spend adequate time consoling the young child concerning their worries. That happy-memory toy may just solve the immediacy of the problem, leaving you to talk it out later when you have more time on your hands. A favorite book is another good choice to carry in a handbag with you. Familiar pictures and stories in an unfamiliar environment can assist with settling in. A new school or playgroup might need to be found and contacted before moving.

Pets can be difficult to relocate. Transportation of larger pets can be organized by a professional service if your cat or dog is unused to the family car, or you consider it unsuitable for the duration of the trip between homes. Smaller pets, such

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