by Cathiesblogg

Created on: April 04, 2007   Last Updated: March 13, 2010

Human nature is really strange and hard to figure out sometimes. Just when you think a relationship is over, watch out! Because where a person had all the strong emotions and desires of this great pure "Love" you can bet they can equally match it with the same intensity of emotions and desires transferred into pure"hate".

There is indeed a very thin line between love and hate. Just look at all the murder/suicide rates! Many people feel they can't live without this person or had rather see them dead then to imagine them with someone else! Really scary but open up your local newspaper. It is so very true that obsessions and compulsions are also a part of love and hate. You indeed become very obsessed about someone you love..or hate. Compulsive decisions are many times the result of both of these strong emotions also.

When a person truly loves someone with so much desire and emotion, putting their whole heart and soul into the relationship.Then to find out that the love is unrequited, in other words, You love him but he doesn't love you. A Payback or Revenge can only be expected!

This is a lot of times how a person can really learn to 'Hate' so deep. Seeking revenge for the hurt they feel deep inside. This happens a lot in divorces.

Take this scenario, a married couple begin a new relationship with many wonderful fantasies and dreams so very much "in love", or so they both thought! Only to find out after many years of marriage, mortgage and kids, one of the two doesn't think it is actually love that he feels. Ok this is bad enough but can you imagine how the other one is left to feel? There whole world is now turned upside down!

Many times the person who was "scorned" or left behind in a true love relationship will use the courts for revenge. Any thing to cause misery to the other person. A friend of mine, in a situation like this told me "Revenge can be very sweet!". But does this indeed make the "Scorned one" feel better? Yes it does, according to many that are in this situation

Don't think that the person that truly "loved" is going to forgive and forget you so easily. It is so hurtful for someone to go into a relationship, thinking that you are both on the same page, when in reality you are into that person on a much deeper level.It could change a persons life, in a bad way, for the rest of their live. Causing so much insecurity and depression.

The outcome could be detrimental in the end for both of you.

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