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Losing the negative person in you

" loser language."

So now we have a very negative rat race going on (by the way, are any of you rats?) I didn't think so, but we still run this race anyway. People want to feel good about themselves, so naturally they want to win this race. Unfortunately, this race goes against our true needs of the soul (love, compassion, sensitivity, and understanding). This is the point in which we start to walk away from our true selves. And start to become deceitful, selfish, uncaring, and generally the opposite of who we are supposed to be. In order to win a race that we should not be running in the first place.

Now imagine a whole society of fake people chasing their illusions, and falling short. "WHY ME?" "ITS YOUR FAULT THAT IM NOT HAPPY!"". LOSER LANGUAGE! Then there are extremes, "I WOULD NOT BE SITTING HERE IN JAIL IF SOMEONE ELSE HAD NOT LET ME DOWN" Or " MY LIFE IS RUINED, BUT IT'S NOT MY FAULT!" excuses are like magic tricks, they are fancy, and entertaining, but contain no substance!

Life happens; we can either go with it, or be trampled under it. It's our choice. Yes bad things happen to good people, and again life goes on. We cannot control the attitudes, and actions of others. We can only change the way we view life. We can change
our perceptions from " Curse " to " Blessing" it's all up to us!

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, DON'T BLINDY FOLLOW, LEAD BY EXAMPLE! Stop looking out, start looking in, and be your own best friend!

Try asking God what he thinks of your fast, beautiful car, and all the shiny stuff that keeps us all slaves to the rat race?

There is way too much " Loser language" being spoken in this world today! Please do not add to this conversation!

As Joe dirt says " life's a garden DIG IT!"

COMMIT TO LIFE; GIVE YOURSELF A CHANCE TO BE WHOLE!

God bless you

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