by Cynthia Ruff

Created on: January 20, 2013   Last Updated: January 21, 2013

Caring for an Alzheimer’s patient is never easy, but being prepared can greatly reduce the stress levels and problems that can arise. Caregiver(s) can experience stress, depression, loneliness, isolation, guilt, fatigue and financial problems while trying to attend to the patient’s physical, medical and psychological needs. Being prepared for this life-changing event is critical to successfully meeting the needs of both patient and caregiver.

Become knowledgeable about the expectations for someone who is developing Alzheimer’s. For example, there will be changes in personality, cognitive functions and day-to-day activities. There are many reliable resources, books, fact sheets and publications available. There is no reason for the caregiver to feel alone and isolated. Support groups exist in most communities, and attending one is a wonderful way to meet other caregivers who can share their wisdom, experiences and stories. 

Seeking good and reliable medical care is critical also, and often finding the appropriate type of medication for the patient can help reduce caregiver stress. Therefore, it is good to effectively communicate with a physician about the patient’s unique symptoms. For example, does the patient exhibit aggression, anger, frustration, mood swings, depression, confusion and the inability to communicate? Various medications on the market can greatly assist with an array of symptoms, and can relieve the stress level of both the caregiver and the patient.

Be prepared by consulting an eldercare attorney regarding financial and end-of-life issues. Visit daycare centers, nursing homes and assisted living communities to get an understanding of how best to meet caregiver and patient needs. Do not be timid about reaching out for help from neighbors, friends and family members as well as social workers and caregiver agencies. Having a list of reliable individuals and agencies is key to reducing the stress that can come with caring for a loved one.

Getting a much-needed break is critical to the caregiver. Just a few hours of downtime to nap, take a walk, or read and relax can be a lifesaver to a loved one. Keeping a positive outlook, relying on the will of God and a solid faith will also assist the caregiver in knowing that there is a light at the end of every tunnel. Each day will come to an end, and there will be rest; with the start of a new day, there will be renewed energy, hope and the possibility of a better and more comforting tomorrow.

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