The age-old question: is it alright to have sex on a first date? The answer to that question lies in the factor of do you really want to see the person again? Choosing sex on a first date does not make your new beau see you as great it does just the opposite. You may leave him thinking wow it was good but that was simply too easy. Definitely not the lasting impression you want to leave him with!

The truth of the matter is guys indeed dig sex and really want to lay you but they want a competition to do it. If it comes too easy you do not intrigue his primitive competitive side. The primitive competitive side is what keeps the new date interested in continuing to see you. Sex on a first date, even if the chemistry is great may fail to blossom into a lasting relationship. If you really want date number two hold those panties tightly in place for now that is unless of course the date was intended to be a booty call in the first place. Which leads me to the next discussion of booty calls.

A booty call as we call it is not really a date. A date is when two people are looking for chemistry to connect and possibly form a lasting relationship. A booty call, on the other hand, is when two people do not care about chemistry as long as the bedroom mambo is excellent. Booty calls generally come with no relationship strings attached; in fact if ties begin to form the whole relationship is generally trashed as a "screwed" up deal. If a booty call is what you have on mind for a date it is important that you don't lead your date to believe you want more. A booty call should be understood by all consenting parties or else both of you are going to end up highly upset!

Sex on a first date is not a wise decision concerning things other than just messing up a possibly good relationship. If you have just met this person you are dating you have no idea what type of past relationship "experiences" this person has had. They may sleep with dates on a daily basis increasing their risk and yours if you sleep with them of sexually transmitted diseases (STD's). Get to know your date before you bed them; it could save your life and your libido!

A date may come on strong just to see how you will react. If you find yourself in this type of position just tell your date that you have just met and you don't feel comfortable taking the relationship to the next level yet. If your date is testing your easiness meter to see if you are worth pursing you just passed, if your date was

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