by Jennifer Matheson

Created on: September 21, 2011

Making a man fall in love with you isn’t as hard as it may seem.  The advice I am about to give you is coming from someone who never seems to lack love in her life.  Please make sure that you realize, you should not trick or deceive someone into falling in love with you, but you can do certain things to help the process along.

Be Yourself (just not your whole self):

I know this might sound a little too easy, but it actually might be hard for someone who has low self-esteem.  You don’t want a guy to fall in love with the wrong idea of you.  You want to be yourself to a certain extent.  You don’t have to reveal your whole life to someone when you first start dating or tell them all your secret flaws, but you do need to be truthful to him and to yourself.  If you don’t agree with him you should let him know, and don’t just pretend you like something because he does.  Have your own opinion.  This shows confidence, and that is one thing guys love.

Be Confident:

Confidence is essential to loving yourself and is also important to getting someone else to love you.  The best way to exude high self-worth without seeming conceited is to start a conversation based off of his interests, talents and accomplishments.  If the guy you are dating is interested in you at all, he will then reciprocate and ask you about yours.  Here is your chance to tell him about that prize you won or the promotion at your job.  You can also bring up new events that show your confidence and excitement about yourself and your life.

Give confidence:

Just as guys love confidence in a girl, they love it even more on themselves.  Guys may feel a little self-conscious about certain aspects too.  When a girl comes along who makes them feel special, they will melt.  Find out what is most important to a guy and make him feel like he is the best at it.  Does he like to fix things around the house?  Well tell him something broke so he can show off his construction skills.  Then compliment him on a job well done.  Just don’t go overboard.  You don’t want a guy to feel like he is on a pedestal; you want him right next to you where he is will start to see you as a permanent figure in his life.

Be Aloof:

People want what they can’t have.  The supply and demand rule of economics applies to human nature too.  Once you show interest in a guy and start dating,

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