by Anthony Brown

Created on: August 29, 2011

            There is a black abyss within everyone. This space appears as a deep hollow emotion. It is there for a reason. It needs to be filled. There is no mistake in life that a person has to carry this burden individually as a means for survival. It is part of nature’s process, somewhat like the discipline part of pain when exercising. There is a necessary discomfort that comes within one’s aura which is used to build, and strengthen. It has a purpose. Growing through personal suffering allures to a mature adult. It is reasoning to call this person’s hollow abyss within their lives; loneliness. However, a person’s ability to cope with this reality, despite the condition of pain within, produces an ability to form healthy relationships.

            It is offensive to marry, date, or start an intimate relationship on the base of loneliness. The fear to become an older lonely person should drive one to become more productive and outgoing within their daily activities. Yes, this is an easily made statement which is very difficult to live out. Nevertheless, life’s moral on this matter is simple. A person cannot trust romantic love of someone else to fill this spiritual void within their character. If two people are mature, healthy, and responsible citizen before entering an intimate relationship, they will reproduce a healthy, strong, and positive romantic relationship. Allow outside relations to enter the boundaries of one’s persona in a non responsible manner causes more distress than comfort. And, when the matter of raising children becomes involve the malefactor of the psychological effect grows higher.

            This is a very common knowledge problem. For the most part, people feed into their addictive, co-dependent lifestyles, and wild living to escape the reality of the simple growing within and becoming a more developed human being. Overeating, alcoholism, indulging in gambling or over-spending as well as obsessive gym exercising all feeds into the germ of loneliness; it is subtle. It does not always appear as a moral of “running in fear” when a person indulge in wrongful activities to escape the roots behind loneliness. The depth in the emptiness behind this feeling could have rooted in childhood; through parental abandonment, or schoolyard

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