by Anna Ortlieb

Created on: March 20, 2007   Last Updated: April 23, 2007

In finding a perfect match, having knowledge of the law of attraction is crucial.

If you think that finding your perfect match equals finding the perfect person you
are in for disappointments. However, if you have the self-knowledge to know what you
want, you can certainly create the perfect relationship.

1. First and foremost, self-knowledge is crucial to finding a partner that will work for you and with you. Assess what your values are. Preferably write a list with the values you want your mate to have, the behaviors and traits that you desire and the experiences you would like to share with that special someone.

2. Make a visualization board with images of couples doing actives you would like to experience with your partner.

3. Use your imagination and paint scenarios as if you were already in the relationship you desire. Evoke within you the feelings you would actually experience by imagining yourself with a partner doing joyful things. Your own personal frequency of vibration will dictate what attracts to you.

4. Dare to dream big, and be confident that as you consciously become aware of what you desire, it will become yours. Do not settle for anything less then what you dream of.

5. Have patience and keep your spirits up! Finding your perfect match should be fun and an adventure. We are like magnets, like attract like. You become AND attract what you think about with the most focus. So think positive and keep your focus on your dreams. That is the only way to get there.

6. Allow your partner to enter your life. Often we fear what we want the most. There is no such thing as "the right time" . The right time is now, the past and the future is just that. Be open, ready and accessible to new experiences and ideas.

7. Trust that the universe will unfold to accommodate your desires and enjoy your life to the fullest in the process. Nothing is more attractive (= there is no way for you to better attract) then a happy, self-secure, loving and blossoming person.

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