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For me dancing does play a very big part in the whole 'Are we going to go back to his tonight?'. If I'm out with my mates and there is a bloke on the dance floor and he catches my eye, it's not just because of his looks, but about the way he is dancing. I love to dance when I'm out therefore I would want to meet someone who can dance too, not dorky dancing but dancing that makes you go wow!

And I think for a girl the way you dance is very important to nabbing that guy:

- If you dance like a stripper, he can see it as 'cor look at her bet she's a goer in bed!' or he could think 'slut! don't wanna know'
- If you dance like a clown, with no rhythm he might think 'awww bless, bet she's a lovely girl, I'm gonna go chat to her' or he could think 'woah! stay away from that, looks like a baboon just let out the zoo!'
- If you the sort to dance in a circle with all your mates round you then chances are he's going to be too intimidated to make a move but he could always think 'she looks like fun, I'll see if she wants to meet up sometime'
- If you dance by yourself he'll probably think 'loser!' but he could also think 'yeah she's got confidence I like it'
- If your a mosher but not in a mosh pit then he'll probably stay away or think 'cool as a cute crazy girl, I wanna know more about her!'
- If you're a professional dancer and your pulling all your moves on the dance floor, carry on, you know what your doing, he's going to love it, maybe slightly intimidated but he'll be curious.

Basically blokes, look for lots of different things to do with girls, to do with the way they dress, laugh, move, walk etc. But I think they best way to pull is to be yourself, then he'll know exactly what he's getting and if he doesn't like what he see's then it's no loss to you.

And vice-versa for blokes, you should be who you are and not try to be any better because if you do then your not being honest with yourself and you'll end up being hurt.

Dancing is like a type of foreplay sexually but does it always have to come down to sex? whats happened to going on dates, meeting for drinks?
times are changing guess I should just roll with it!

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